When having sex with a partner, the turnoff can be annoying.
Women don’t have a refraction. With a female partner, sometimes the frustration is that just when it gets very pleasant, the party is over as soon as a man has cummed. At the same time, it can also be the salvation for a woman who feels more obliged to meet the lusts of a man than that she herself wants sex. In cases of abusing men, it can therefore put an end to an unpleasant situation.
It can also be a bit difficult for two men. Normally one comes first. Who then loses interest. But does think that the other should also come too. Two men who are one in such a way that they sometimes have to really feel which willy is attached to whom can feel another effect. One’s orgasm can then trigger the refraction response in the other’s brain. The same substances are released as if he himself just had an orgasm. The one who has already come can do what he wants, but the other is no longer able to have an orgasm. Because that body thinks it has already had one.
The other way around is also possible with two men. They can merge mentally. But also the willy mind can become connected so that it becomes one system. Then when one willy comes, the other will come too. Or even at the same time. There are even known cases where this can happen almost without any physical contact. There is nothing conscious to agree on, it is only the two willies themselves that must be completely on one wavelength.